Warning Signs Of Teen Dating Violence

Warning Signs Of Teen Dating Violence

Dating is an inevitable part of life that many experiences for the first time as a teenager. However, it can be incredibly complicated. Going into a relationship requires more maturity than most teens have developed.

As a result, they might be involved in relationships that are unhealthy and violent. These relationships take many forms, and the cause of these behaviors which leads to an unhealthy relationship is still unknown. Here are certain behaviors that should be a cause for concern.

• Constantly texting, calling, or contacting your teen, and becomes angry if your teen doesn’t respond.
• Force or pressure your teen into sexual acts or to try drugs and alcohol.
• Make your teen feel guilty – using phrases like “if you really loved me…” or “if you break up with me, I’m going to hurt/kill myself.”
• Verbally put down your teen (calling them ugly, a slut, dumb, crazy, etc.)
• Have an explosive temper – going from “zero to one hundred” over minor things.
• They can also get physical when they get angry.
• Display extreme jealousy which can include attempting to control who your teen talks to and hangs out with or what they are ‘allowed’ to wear.
• Teen pulling away from activities, family time, or friend groups.

If you notice these behaviors in your teen, have an honest discussion with them. Share with your teen the characteristics of a healthy relationship, and point out the behaviors that concern you.

What If Your Teenager Is The Abusive One?

Sometimes teens can display negative behavior in their relationships without understanding that these behaviors are controlling, or abusive.

If you suspect your teen is mistreating their partner, whether intentionally or not, you can sit them down and share your concerns.

If you feel your teen needs more help than you can provide, try to identify a local counselor or program specific to working with teens who display unhealthy behaviors.

You can also talk to us if you need our help.